Contrarily to what i was used to in Tunisia, there is no control when entering the quay or train in Poland, you only get asked for your ticket during the travel. Trains were fairly nice, and i liked those with compartiments, non existant back home, another difference is the rails are rationally wide in Poland, i always thought they were unreasonably narrow in Tunisia, no wonder it influences stability, speed and comfort. What is comparable on the other hand, is how much crowded the trains can turn to be; after the compartiements get busy, it gets even hard to find your place in the cold narrow and noisy hallway along the wagon, where many don't hesitate to spread their sleeping bags on the floor and take a set of naps regularly disturbed by those people walking over their heads back and forth along the corridor, at times accidentally stepping over their feet.
It was a tight schedule i planned for my first tripping week; one day and a half for Wroclaw and the next day and a half for Poznan. When i arrived to the first city i was nicely welcomed by by my host Marta. My first positive impression about her was enhanced by she asked me whether i like walking; we spent that whole day striding almost non stop ! Couldn't be better. At night i am very warmly welcomed by the parents, mother is interested and asks a lot of questions, in polish ! but Marta was a good interpreter. In the morning we were supposed to visit some other places. Instead, we more worthily spent it chatting at home and teaching languages. Time passed so nicely that for a while i reconsidered my plan and thought of staying instead of going to Poznan, but at the end i did leave.
Among the interesting topics raised in our discussions was the question about the point in making brief couch surfs; you get to meet wonderful people, spend magical time together, but then you leave as soon, settle for keeping it as a simple memory, and return to your daily routine. How disappointing is that ?
I believe it's not for nothing that it's meant to be so; what makes the visit good is justly its briefness, in a short time you can only get the ephemerally enthusiastic state of mind of the newly encountered person; the best of him. In a short time you are yourself excited about your visit and can only see the best of the place: this is how great a couch surf can be. If you make it long, well, if you make it long it will be different.
What is sure is that later, comes the time to make the effort of keeping in touch, and depeding on its reciprocity, you will know the extent of the friendship.
I still remember the goodbye at the train quay as if it was yesterday, it was definitely a very good first surf.
Wroclaw was beautiful, Poznan was different, was quiet and peaceful. Ania, my host, accentuated that feeling. Our many discussions were mature and calm, and to my big pleasure, there have been of those mutually comfortable silences, i always loved the people who appreciate silence. We did not spend a lot of time touring the city. At night we went to meet Ania's friends, cs_ers as well. Happened then an effect i would name The Turtle Effect !
I will unexpectedly not develop that ! Although i know you are greatly interested in getting details ^^ I can yet hint that a story can only be related after it ends.
No wonder Poznan was a highlight in Poland.